Tuesday 8 May 2012

Indian Weddings Today

An Indian wedding is always an opulent and lavish affair, even at its simplest. These days, Indian weddings are characterized by the grandeur of the affair which comes through from the choice of venue, choice of caterer, wedding planner and bride and groom’s designer wear.

In fact, one person that stands out in the midst of Indian weddings is the wedding planner. Thanks to the many aspects of a wedding, wedding planners have mushroomed and this has become a lucrative income stream. Of course, they take care of all aspects of a wedding—right from the venue, music, flowers, mandap decoration, chairs, transport, to just about everything else.

They also fix up the music and setting of the wedding and the run-up to the wedding, which is the engagement and sangeet. Now that sangeet celebrations are no longer restricted to the Punjabis but are held among all Hindus everywhere, it requires some freshness in terms of choice of music, dancers and overall entertainment level. Everyone looks forward to good Indian weddings because of the color, richness, the overall beauty and the laughter and love everywhere.

It is believed that Indian weddings are nothing but the coming together of two families who have the same attitude to life, the same value system and the same commitment to this union. So, whether the two families belong to the same Hindu sect or not, Hindu rituals are performed of one side or the other and there is great camaraderie all around.

A few days before the marriage, there are a few ceremonies to be performed—the tilak, haldi ceremony and the mehendi ceremonies. The day after the last ceremony is performed, the marriage takes place. A Hindu marriage is always supposed to be performed within the muhurat period, if the groom comes on time. Delays at wedding time are inevitable, so having come to Indian weddings, drop anchor and wait for everything to happen before you. Don’t be in a rush, because here things follow their own pace.

But until the bride and groom surface for the nuptials, there’s a lot of food and drink floating around and as people wait for the wedding to take place, a lot of wining and dining takes place—a beautiful feature of all Indian weddings and something well worth the wait. After Indian weddings are performed according to custom, the vidai or farewell takes place where the bride is led out of her father’s house and taken to the groom’s waiting car and then she drives off with her husband to start her new life.

Nothing could be more colorful, lavish and fun than Indian weddings, so if you’re ever invited to them, accept your invitations and go there and pig out, dance through the night and make loads of friends whose names you’re not going to remember the morning after the wedding.

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